A LITTLE CURIOSITY GOES A LONG WAY

Less small talk.
More “tell me more.”

Find out what they love. What they don’t.
Discover how your worlds come together.

Dr. Rachael THE GET2KNOWEM PICKER

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Good questions.
Unexpected stories.
Real connection.

WHO ARE YOU GETTING TO KNOW?

Choose your situation to open the questions.

What are you curious about?

WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE?

BEFORE YOU ASK

Ask one. Share your answer.
Follow the conversation.

The follow-ups are options, not a checklist. Choose Sex & chemistry when you both want to go there.

EASE INTO IT

If you’ve tried talking before

ASK IT

Ask. Listen. Share your answer, too.✳

Make sense of the answer

Two different things to consider:

Does this fit what I enjoy?
Does this fit what I’m looking for in a partner?

Is this flexible, important, or a nonnegotiable for me? What do I still need to ask?

Build on what you’re learning together:

What helps each of us feel understood, appreciated, and close?

What do we want to keep, make more room for, or approach differently?

What’s one small step we both welcome—and when will we check in about it?

If they hesitate: “Too personal for right now? We can come back to it.”

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MAKE IT A CONVERSATION

You don’t need to get through a list.
One good question can be enough.

GET2KNOWEM · Powered by Dr. RachaelFor adult conversations, at your own pace.

A QUESTION AWAY

Make room for
a real answer.

Choose Someone new or Already together, then one of four topics.
Use the opening line if it helps. Ask one question, listen, and share your answer.
Reveal a follow-up if you both want to go further. You do not need to ask them all.
Tap the heart to save a question for later. Copy one question to text it, or copy the whole conversation for yourself.

Intimate questions are for consenting adults. No experience is required, and nobody owes an answer or details about their past.

Two ways into intimacy

For couples, Sex & chemistry offers Turn up the chemistry for pleasure and discovery, and Find our way back for a suggested conversation about intimacy that has faded. You can pause or switch at any time.

Getting to know someone new

Open “Make sense of the answer” for reflection. Keep what you enjoy separate from what you want in a partner. You might love going out but want someone who gives you room to go with friends.

A preference difference, a significant mismatch, and someone ignoring a boundary are different things. One answer is not a verdict on someone’s character. Give yourself time to see whether their actions match their words.

Strengthen the relationship you have

These questions help you understand each other, build on what feels good, work through differences, and grow a deeper connection. Use the reflection panel to find a shared next step.

If there has been little or no sex, Find our way back offers a starting conversation. Take turns hearing how each person experienced the changes. You can pause and return without having to solve everything at once.

Ask what actually happened, what each person understood, and what you still need to talk about. Give each other room to answer honestly. A gift, favor, or trip never creates an obligation to have sex.

Keep it on your phone

Bookmark this page. On iPhone, open it in Safari, tap Share, then Add to Home Screen. On Android, open your browser’s menu and look for Add to Home screen.

Saved questions stay in this browser on this device. Clearing browser data removes them. This tool does not ask you to record anyone’s answers.

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Less small talk.More “tell me more.”

Less small talk.
More “tell me more.”